When I begin working with a new client one of the first things I do is have them tell me where they are already wildly successful. Why? Because it helps to re-frame attitudes and point out that they really are able to improve their lives and make changes. For most people, making occasional improvements in various areas of life isn’t too difficult. As you look at your life today, can you see any areas that may need improvement? It could be something about your career, your relationships, your finances, your spirituality, or something else.
While it’s true that you can think of plenty of ways to improve your situation, taking action and sticking with it is what separates the winners from the losers. A mentor once told me that “there are two kinds of people. ‘Dreamers‘ dream about what they want. All talk, no action. ‘Doers‘ go after what they want and don’t spend time yakking about it.” While this is not to endorse jumping into half-baked ideas, as a rule, the people who are “doers” tend to be much more successful in life than the others. How come?
While it’s true that you can think of plenty of ways to improve your situation, taking action and sticking with it is what separates the winners from the losers. A mentor once told me that “there are two kinds of people. ‘Dreamers‘ dream about what they want. All talk, no action. ‘Doers‘ go after what they want and don’t spend time yakking about it.” While this is not to endorse jumping into half-baked ideas, as a rule, the people who are “doers” tend to be much more successful in life than the others. How come?
“Doers” operate from a mindset of success and personal power.It begins with believing in one’s self and one’s inherent worth. Unfortunately, most of us have received such negative programming that we can’t accept a simple complement gracefully. Successful people know who they are and they refuse to let others steal their future by poisoning their dreams.
In previous blogs I’ve talked about how NLP (neurolinguistic programming), EFT (emotional freedom techniques), and hypnotherapy are fantastic technologies that you can use to re-program yourself for success. Dennis Waitley writes, “Since the mind is a specific biocomputer, it needs specific instructions and directions. The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don’t define them, learn about them, or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them.”
Having clearly identified their outcome, successful people commit to DWIT (“do whatever it takes”) to move forward consistently in the direction they want to do. It takes a certain level of focus to keep from being distracted by all of the bright, shiny objects that cross your field of awareness every minute. A great way to develop your powers of concentration is through a regular meditation practice.
Other things you can do to keep on track include:
We are all “in process” or “under renovation.” When you commit to self-improvement you begin to grow in areas that you hadn’t planned on, as well as those you specifically identified as “work zones.” Overall, you’ll feel better about yourself, be more willing to take risks, up to accepting greater challenges. As a result, you evolve as a human being and you truly begin making a much larger impact in the world—simply by being a better version of yourself. As others see the progress you are making, you will impact them in some way that changes their future as well. As you change yourself and others, you end up changing the world around you.
I know that sounds pretty ambitious. The good news is you don’t have to do it all alone! For most of us, extra support can make all the difference in the world. It’s easy to get off track and lose sight of what is most important to you. Having a coach will help you stay focused, be intentional, discover your true purpose, and achieve goals and dreams.
Every four years we gear up for another round of the Olympic Games. Just as these world class athletes have coaches to bring out their best performance, life coaching can help you build on your own strengths for increased effectiveness and improvement. Would you like to find out who you really are and all that you are capable of?
A great first step for you might be to contact me for a 45 minute FREE life transformation strategy session.
In this session we will:
Click here to schedule your complimentary session!
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In previous blogs I’ve talked about how NLP (neurolinguistic programming), EFT (emotional freedom techniques), and hypnotherapy are fantastic technologies that you can use to re-program yourself for success. Dennis Waitley writes, “Since the mind is a specific biocomputer, it needs specific instructions and directions. The reason most people never reach their goals is that they don’t define them, learn about them, or ever seriously consider them as believable or achievable. Winners can tell you where they are going, what they plan to do along the way, and who will be sharing the adventure with them.”
Having clearly identified their outcome, successful people commit to DWIT (“do whatever it takes”) to move forward consistently in the direction they want to do. It takes a certain level of focus to keep from being distracted by all of the bright, shiny objects that cross your field of awareness every minute. A great way to develop your powers of concentration is through a regular meditation practice.
Other things you can do to keep on track include:
- crafting your life vision/purpose statement and posting where you will routinely see it and be able to reflect on it.
- clearing clutter and re-organizing your physical space
- setting goals (consider using the SMART acronym in your planning)
- taking at least 3 actions daily that move you toward where you want to be
- evaluate how you’re doing and make appropriate “course corrections” as needed
- write and use powerful affirmations, visualizations, and/or self-hypnosis audios
- recognize and celebrate “minor” milestones along the way to your “big” goal
We are all “in process” or “under renovation.” When you commit to self-improvement you begin to grow in areas that you hadn’t planned on, as well as those you specifically identified as “work zones.” Overall, you’ll feel better about yourself, be more willing to take risks, up to accepting greater challenges. As a result, you evolve as a human being and you truly begin making a much larger impact in the world—simply by being a better version of yourself. As others see the progress you are making, you will impact them in some way that changes their future as well. As you change yourself and others, you end up changing the world around you.
I know that sounds pretty ambitious. The good news is you don’t have to do it all alone! For most of us, extra support can make all the difference in the world. It’s easy to get off track and lose sight of what is most important to you. Having a coach will help you stay focused, be intentional, discover your true purpose, and achieve goals and dreams.
Every four years we gear up for another round of the Olympic Games. Just as these world class athletes have coaches to bring out their best performance, life coaching can help you build on your own strengths for increased effectiveness and improvement. Would you like to find out who you really are and all that you are capable of?
A great first step for you might be to contact me for a 45 minute FREE life transformation strategy session.
In this session we will:
- Uncover hidden challenges that may be the cause of chaos, stress and discord in your life.
- Create a crystal clear vision for your “ultimate life” of tremendous success on your terms with ample quality time and energy for all your priorities.
- Leave the session renewed, re-energized, and inspired to transform your life and accomplish all of the things that are really important to you.
Click here to schedule your complimentary session!
My new Facebook site is now up! Please visit. I’d appreciate your “Like!” and if you sign up for my e-list from Facebook, I’ll send you my latest time management suggestions.
Want to use this article on your website or your own Ezine?
Thanks for appreciating the value of this content. You’re welcome to reproduce this article, but you must reproduce it in its entirety and leave all the links active. Additionally, here is the short bio that you should include:
Dr. Steve Stutz, CC is a Life Success Coach, specializing in helping clergy and professional church workers not only survive but to thrive during periods of crisis, transition, and renewal. To receive periodic personal development tips and success mindset articles, please join his e-list by visitingwww.forwardpathcoaching.com
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