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How To Have Greater Self-Confidence

6/19/2014

I don’t think there’s a day that goes by in which the inner critic in my mind doesn’t try to convince me that I had better sit down and shut up because if I don’t, everyone around will realize what a fraud I really am. Shocking admission? No, I’m a clairvoyant and I know your deepest, darkest thoughts!

The truth is, you and everyone else have the same thing going on, to one degree or another. Everybody experiences a lack of confidence at some time in their life. The good news in today’s blog is that with the right approach, you can overcome this.

So, I want to give you some suggestions to improve your self-confidence, in any situation, at any time, beginning right now. As an NLP guy, I know these techniques will help you to rapidly make positive, long lasting changes to the way you approach situations in which you feel disempowered and unconfident.

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How To Write Powerful Affirmations to Re-Program Your Subconscious Mind

6/13/2014

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If you’ve listened to recordings of Zig Ziglar, Tony Robbins, Jack Canfield, Napoleon Hill, or virtually anyone in the personal development field, eventually they work their way around to discussing the importance of “self-talk.” All of our beliefs are stored in the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is like your body’s computer. It takes an Input, processes it, and delivers an output. There is enormous power in your own subconscious mind for creating the experiences and successes that you desire, but in order to use that power effectively, you need to learn how to develop and use your personalized set of “affirmations.”

To get started, you first need to be aware of your typical thoughts. Do you find yourself talking and thinking about what you don’t want and everything that is wrong in your life? Affirmations are a tool that you’ll find extremely helpful in shifting your focus on to what you DO want-which then sets into motion a whole new set of responses from “the Universe.” (Don’t be offended. This is a generic term, similar to “higher power” in recovery circles, that allows everyone to join in the process by investing the term with whatever meaning is significant for that individual.)

To construct powerful and effective affirmations, you need to:

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How To Get Out of Your Own Way and Step Confidently Into Your Compelling Future

6/9/2014

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One of the questions I ask people who inquire about coaching is, “Are you ready to jump in and take massive, focused, consistent action to make it happen?” You’d be surprised at how non-committal some folks can be when I simply lay it out there like that. Many people are “interested” in the “idea” of life change, provided that it’s something that won’t inconvenience them or cost them much money.

Fortunately, I also tend to run into a good number of people who are extremely committed, but for whatever reason tend to run into difficulty when the time comes to actually “do it. ” Maybe this has happened to you as well. You’ve made a commitment to pursue something and the next thing you know your mind is full of questions and doubts, things like: “What if I’m really too old to “start over” in my life?” “I don’t see how I could possibly be creative enough to make money doing what I love.” “I’ve tried to lose weight in the past, but I’ve never kept it off. I’m just going to do the same thing again, so why bother?” And before you even get started, you’re defeated.

This “self-sabotage” is important issue to address and it’s one that I’ve written about in the past. Click here read what I had to say about it and how you can overcome its grip on your life.

One of the key tenets of NLP (neurolinguistic programming) is that if one person can do something, anyone can learn to do it. I want to assure you that you can begin right now to consciously redirect the next phase of your life in whatever direction you’d like to have it proceed.

Here’s how to get started:

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How To Be A Confident Public Speaker

6/7/2014

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When it rains, it pours! In one single week I had four individuals ask me about overcoming their fear of public speaking. I did a quick Google search on “fear of public speaking” and found that most people would rather die than speak in front of a group! Seriously!

Here’s the list of top 10 fears among Americans:

10. Fear of confined spaces (Claustrophobia).

9. Fear of thunder and lightning (Brontophobia)

8. Fear of open spaces (Agoraphobia)

7. Fear of flying (Aerophobia)

6. Fear of people or social situations (Sociophobia)

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How To Have Greater Self-Confidence

How To Write Powerful Affirmations to Re-Program Your Subconscious Mind

How To Get Out of Your Own Way and Step Confidently Into Your Compelling Future

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